1. I am drawn to it when my partner shares details with me about a more intense experience with someone else.
2. I would like to take part in a setting with more than one couple.
3. I find the idea of being the center of attention, with two or more partners focusing on my pleasure, very appealing.
4. I am attracted to participating as a third person in a couple’s erotic experience.
5. I could enjoy an experience even if I were watching more than participating.
6. I am generally drawn to the idea of swinging.
7. The idea of entering the private space of a couple, knowing that my presence would elevate their experience, arouses me.
8. I am drawn to the idea of having sex only with my partner while another couple does the same in the same room.
9. I am drawn to the idea of group erotic play.
10. The idea of feeling erotically inferior to a third person within an agreed setting arouses me.
11. I would feel more comfortable in a shared erotic setting if I stayed only with my partner.
12. I do not believe erotic desire must always be strictly limited to one person.
13. I would feel comfortable taking a role where I satisfy one of the two partners while the other watches or participates.
14. I can separate an erotic experience from emotional threat.
15. I would feel more comfortable with a softer swap than with full sexual intercourse.
16. The shared atmosphere with another couple attracts me even without partner swapping.
17. I would not mind experimenting with many people.
18. It is important to me to see my partner with someone else rather than be in separate rooms.
19. The idea that my partner may enjoy a third person more than me arouses me.
20. At a couples’ erotic party, I would prefer to attend alone rather than together with my partner.
21. Full erotic contact and swapping with another couple would not bother me.
22. I would prefer clear limits in a softer swap, without full sexual intercourse.
23. I would be interested in exploring swinging with my partner.
24. At first, I would prefer a softer experience rather than a full one.
25. I would feel comfortable with touching and a softer swap, but not with full sexual intercourse.
26. I am drawn to the role of the third person added to an already existing dynamic.
27. If there were trust and clear limits, I would be interested in full swap.
28. I would be interested in full partner swapping.
