1. I am drawn to the idea of having sex only with my partner while another couple does the same in the same room.
2. I am attracted to using verbal humiliation or degradation within a clearly agreed BDSM context.
3. I am attracted to the idea of being tied or physically restrained within a safe and consensual context.
4. Tying up or restraining my partner arouses me.
5. I enjoy playfully challenging the other person’s authority to create tension and reaction.
6. At first, I would prefer a softer experience rather than a full one.
7. I like my partner caring for me, guiding me, and giving me a sense of protection during erotic play.
8. I am drawn to it when my partner shares details with me about a more intense experience with someone else.
9. I would be interested in full partner swapping.
10. Having control in erotic play arouses me.
11. I would like to take part in a setting with more than one couple.
12. I would be interested in exploring swinging with my partner.
13. I am drawn to a relationship where control and submission exist beyond the bedroom.
14. I am drawn to roleplay with a clear age-dynamic difference, where one person takes a smaller role and the other takes a more mature or guiding role, always between adults.
15. I am attracted to the fantasy of losing control when everything has been clearly agreed in advance.
16. I am drawn to the role of the third person added to an already existing dynamic.
17. I am drawn to my partner serving me sexually and showing devotion through their role.
18. I am drawn to the idea of group erotic play.
19. I would prefer clear limits in a softer swap, without full sexual intercourse.
20. I can enjoy being submissive at one time and dominant at another.
21. I am drawn to taking a role with a smaller, innocent, or playful style within agreed adult roleplay.
22. The idea of feeling erotically inferior to a third person within an agreed setting arouses me.
23. I am drawn to an erotic dynamic where I feel like prey.
24. I am drawn to a deep erotic dynamic where I take the submissive role and my partner has control, with clear roles between us.
25. For me, care after play is part of the overall experience and not something secondary.
26. I am attracted to trying different kink experiences, even if I do not yet know which role fits me best.
27. I do not need intense roleplay or control in order to enjoy sex.
28. I am attracted to a more instinctive, hunting-like erotic dynamic where I take the active role.
29. I am generally drawn to the idea of swinging.
30. I am attracted to watching erotic or BDSM scenes when everyone involved has consented.
31. Being watched by others in an erotic moment arouses me.
32. Receiving pain in an agreed erotic context arouses me.
33. I am drawn to expressing myself as a pet during play, through behaviors such as teasing, obedience, playfulness, purring, barking, or physical expression.
34. Full erotic contact and swapping with another couple would not bother me.
35. Being humiliated or degraded in an agreed context arouses me.
36. An erotic experience with another couple sounds appealing to me.
37. Inflicting pain in an agreed erotic context arouses me.
38. If there were trust and clear limits, I would be interested in full swap.
39. The idea that my partner may enjoy a third person more than me arouses me.
40. The shared atmosphere with another couple attracts me even without partner swapping.
41. The idea of entering the private space of a couple, knowing that my presence would elevate their experience, arouses me.
42. At a couples’ erotic party, I would prefer to attend alone rather than together with my partner.
43. I am drawn to the idea of being sexually available to my partner and following what they want.
44. I would feel comfortable taking a role where I satisfy one of the two partners while the other watches or participates.
45. I would feel more comfortable with a softer swap than with full sexual intercourse.
46. I would feel more comfortable in a shared erotic setting if I stayed only with my partner.
47. I would not mind experimenting with many people.
