1. I find the idea of being the center of attention, with two or more partners focusing on my pleasure, very appealing.
2. I enjoy playfully challenging the other person’s authority to create tension and reaction.
3. The fantasy of a scene involving physical force or resistance causes erotic arousal for me.
4. I do not identify with only one fixed role, because I can enjoy different dynamics in different experiences.
5. I am drawn to roleplay with a clear age-dynamic difference, where one person takes a smaller role and the other takes a more mature or guiding role, always between adults.
6. I would be interested in full partner swapping.
7. The feeling that someone is watching me can increase my arousal.
8. Receiving pain in an agreed erotic context arouses me.
9. I am drawn to taking a role with a smaller, innocent, or playful style within agreed adult roleplay.
10. I am attracted to trying different kink experiences, even if I do not yet know which role fits me best.
11. I am attracted to entering a more playful, affectionate, or animal-like role within a BDSM context.
12. I am attracted to the idea of being tied or physically restrained within a safe and consensual context.
13. Tying up or restraining my partner arouses me.
14. I am attracted to participating as a third person in a couple’s erotic experience.
15. I am attracted to feeling pursued or claimed within a safe and consensual erotic context.
16. I can enjoy a more instinctive dynamic where I surrender to intensity and pursuit.
17. I believe such an experience could bring us closer as a couple.
18. I like the idea of being in the role of the one who degrades or psychologically controls the other person, always with boundaries and consent.
19. I am drawn to the idea of group erotic play.
20. I like the idea of dominating through intensity, physicality, and instinct, without necessarily following formal role rules.
21. The idea that my partner may enjoy a third person more than me arouses me.
22. I can enjoy an intense scenario of resistance or surrender, as long as there are clear limits, a safeword, and full prior agreement.
23. The feeling of my partner physically imposing themselves on me arouses me.
24. I do not need intense roleplay or control in order to enjoy sex.
25. I am attracted to the idea of being watched in an erotic or BDSM scene when there is consent and a safe context.
26. I would feel more comfortable with a softer swap than with full sexual intercourse.
27. I am attracted to watching erotic or BDSM scenes when everyone involved has consented.
28. I am attracted to tying, guiding, or physically restraining someone with care and control.
29. I am drawn to an erotic dynamic where I feel like prey.
30. I am attracted to resisting or teasing within an agreed erotic power play.
31. I would feel comfortable with touching and a softer swap, but not with full sexual intercourse.
32. I am drawn to a deep erotic dynamic where I serve my partner and show devotion through my role.
33. I am turned on by caring for, guiding, and spoiling my partner during erotic play.
34. I am drawn to the idea of having sex only with my partner while another couple does the same in the same room.
35. The idea of creating a rope or restraint scene where the other person feels safe but restricted is appealing to me.
36. I am turned on by being spoken to with degrading sexual words, as if I am very available, greedy, or sexually “easy”, within agreed play.
37. After intense play, I need emotional reconnection with my partner.
38. An erotic experience with another couple sounds appealing to me.
39. At a couples’ erotic party, I would prefer to attend alone rather than together with my partner.
40. Playfully resisting before I finally give in arouses me.
41. I like peeing on others.
42. I am turned on by the idea of being seen sexually as a body for pleasure or use, within agreed play.
43. For me, care after play is part of the overall experience and not something secondary.
44. I am drawn to my partner taking a role with a more childish, innocent, or playful style within agreed adult roleplay.
45. Depending on the person and the moment, I may be attracted either to being in control or to giving up control.
46. It is important to me to see my partner with someone else rather than be in separate rooms.
47. I like taking a caring and guiding role during sex. Rewarding my partner when they are “good” and punishing them when they are “naughty”.
48. I am drawn to it when my partner shares details with me about a more intense experience with someone else.
49. I like receiving a golden shower.
50. I can separate an erotic experience from emotional threat.
51. I am attracted to the fantasy of losing control when everything has been clearly agreed in advance.
52. Being humiliated or degraded in an agreed context arouses me.
53. Watching others in an erotic moment arouses me.
54. Softer and more classic erotic experiences suit me more than more extreme scenarios.
55. I am drawn to leaving erotic decisions to my partner.
56. I would prefer clear limits in a softer swap, without full sexual intercourse.
57. The idea of entering the private space of a couple, knowing that my presence would elevate their experience, arouses me.
58. If there were trust and clear limits, I would be interested in full swap.
59. I am drawn to the role of the third person added to an already existing dynamic.
60. I would feel more comfortable in a shared erotic setting if I stayed only with my partner.
61. Things that cause me discomfort can sexually arouse me.
62. I would like to take part in a setting with more than one couple.
63. I am interested in staying informed about communities, events, or activities related to these interests.
64. I am drawn to the feeling of belonging very deeply to my partner.
65. I am drawn to expressing myself as a pet during play, through behaviors such as teasing, obedience, playfulness, purring, barking, or physical expression.
66. I like the idea of marks being left after an intense experience.
67. I am usually drawn more to intimacy than to intense kinky intensity.
68. I am drawn to being in the role of the person who receives verbal degradation or psychological control, within a clearly agreed context.
69. The shared atmosphere with another couple attracts me even without partner swapping.
70. At first, I would prefer a softer experience rather than a full one.
71. Inflicting pain in an agreed erotic context arouses me.
72. I am turned on by being cared for, spoiled, and given attention during erotic play.
73. I am drawn to the fantasy of being sexually shared by more than one person and treated as a body for pleasure, within agreed play.
74. Full erotic contact and swapping with another couple would not bother me.
75. Being tied up or physically restrained arouses me.
76. I can be more aroused by observing the dynamic between others than by directly participating.
77. Causing pain arouses me.
78. I would feel comfortable taking a role where I satisfy one of the two partners while the other watches or participates.
79. I am drawn to taking a pet role during erotic play, pretending that I am a pet, such as a kitten, puppy, or something similar.
80. The idea of feeling erotically inferior to a third person within an agreed setting arouses me.
81. I am drawn to my partner taking a pet role during erotic play, pretending to be a pet, such as a kitten, puppy, or something similar.
82. I am attracted to seeing the other person being intensely challenged through pain or other discomfort caused by me, even if within the role they appear to struggle, as long as everything has been clearly agreed in advance.
83. I can enjoy the feeling of giving up control of my body through tying or restraint.
84. I am drawn to a relationship with rules, roles, and a clear structure.
85. I would not mind experimenting with many people.
86. I can enjoy being submissive at one time and dominant at another.
87. I think it is important to have time for cuddling, talking, or calming down after an intense experience.
88. I could enjoy an experience even if I were watching more than participating.
89. I am drawn to a relationship where control and submission exist beyond the bedroom.
90. I am attracted to a more instinctive, hunting-like erotic dynamic where I take the active role.
91. I would be interested in exploring swinging with my partner.
92. I am drawn to adult roleplay where there is a smaller, innocent, or playful style.
93. I am drawn to serving my partner sexually and feeling that I am at their disposal.
94. I prefer to gradually explore different dynamics before settling into a specific identity or role.
95. Being watched by others in an erotic moment arouses me.
96. I can enjoy a fantasy dynamic of care, guidance, or dependence within adult-only roleplay.
97. I am drawn to guiding my partner through specific postures or rituals.
98. I am drawn to my partner submitting to me regularly, with clear roles between us.
99. I am drawn to the idea of my partner surrendering so deeply to me that, within the scene, I can do whatever I want with them, as if they were my slave, always with agreed boundaries and the ability to stop the play at any time.
100. I am attracted to using verbal humiliation or degradation within a clearly agreed BDSM context.
