1. I am drawn to my partner taking a pet role during erotic play, pretending to be a pet, such as a kitten, puppy, or something similar.
2. If there were trust and clear limits, I would be interested in full swap.
3. I like being the one who decides what happens during erotic play and guiding my partner.
4. The feeling that someone is watching me can increase my arousal.
5. I like receiving a golden shower.
6. I think it is important to have time for cuddling, talking, or calming down after an intense experience.
7. I am drawn to the idea of group erotic play.
8. I am turned on by being spoken to with degrading sexual words, as if I am very available, greedy, or sexually “easy”, within agreed play.
9. I am attracted to entering a more playful, affectionate, or animal-like role within a BDSM context.
10. The feeling of my partner physically imposing themselves on me arouses me.
11. I would like to take part in a setting with more than one couple.
12. For me, care after play is part of the overall experience and not something secondary.
13. I am drawn to it when my partner shares details with me about a more intense experience with someone else.
14. I am drawn to guiding my partner through specific postures or rituals.
15. I am drawn to taking a role with a smaller, innocent, or playful style within agreed adult roleplay.
16. I would feel comfortable with touching and a softer swap, but not with full sexual intercourse.
17. The idea of not having a say in when or how sex begins arouses me, as long as I have given my consent in advance.
18. I am drawn to serving my partner sexually and feeling that I am at their disposal.
19. I would not mind experimenting with many people.
20. I could enjoy an experience even if I were watching more than participating.
21. I am attracted to seeing the other person being intensely challenged through pain or other discomfort caused by me, even if within the role they appear to struggle, as long as everything has been clearly agreed in advance.
22. Softer and more classic erotic experiences suit me more than more extreme scenarios.
23. An erotic experience with another couple sounds appealing to me.
24. I would prefer clear limits in a softer swap, without full sexual intercourse.
25. I would be interested in full partner swapping.
26. I am attracted to the idea of being watched in an erotic or BDSM scene when there is consent and a safe context.
27. Being tied up or physically restrained arouses me.
28. I can be more aroused by observing the dynamic between others than by directly participating.
29. The idea that my partner may enjoy a third person more than me arouses me.
30. The idea of feeling erotically inferior to a third person within an agreed setting arouses me.
31. Receiving pain in an agreed erotic context arouses me.
32. The idea of entering the private space of a couple, knowing that my presence would elevate their experience, arouses me.
33. I like taking a caring and guiding role during sex. Rewarding my partner when they are “good” and punishing them when they are “naughty”.
34. Full erotic contact and swapping with another couple would not bother me.
35. I am attracted to resisting or teasing within an agreed erotic power play.
36. I am attracted to a more instinctive, hunting-like erotic dynamic where I take the active role.
37. I do not identify with only one fixed role, because I can enjoy different dynamics in different experiences.
38. I am drawn to constantly trying new things in my erotic life.
39. The shared atmosphere with another couple attracts me even without partner swapping.
40. I am drawn to the feeling of belonging very deeply to my partner.
41. I am drawn to a deep erotic dynamic where I serve my partner and show devotion through my role.
42. Watching others in an erotic moment arouses me.
43. I am drawn to adult roleplay where there is a smaller, innocent, or playful style.
44. I am usually drawn more to intimacy than to intense kinky intensity.
45. I am attracted to tying, guiding, or physically restraining someone with care and control.
46. Sending erotic photos or videos of myself arouses me.
47. I would feel more comfortable in a shared erotic setting if I stayed only with my partner.
48. I can enjoy being submissive at one time and dominant at another.
49. I am drawn to expressing myself as a pet during play, through behaviors such as teasing, obedience, playfulness, purring, barking, or physical expression.
50. Causing pain arouses me.
51. At first, I would prefer a softer experience rather than a full one.
52. I am drawn to a relationship with rules, roles, and a clear structure.
53. I like the idea of marks being left after an intense experience.
54. I enjoy playfully challenging the other person’s authority to create tension and reaction.
55. Being humiliated or degraded in an agreed context arouses me.
56. I am drawn to roleplay with a clear age-dynamic difference, where one person takes a smaller role and the other takes a more mature or guiding role, always between adults.
57. I could see such an experience as something we share rather than something threatening.
58. Tying up or restraining my partner arouses me.
59. I am drawn to my partner serving me sexually and showing devotion through their role.
60. I prefer to gradually explore different dynamics before settling into a specific identity or role.
61. I find the idea of being the center of attention, with two or more partners focusing on my pleasure, very appealing.
62. Playfully resisting before I finally give in arouses me.
63. Humiliating or degrading my partner in an agreed context arouses me.
64. I am attracted to trying different kink experiences, even if I do not yet know which role fits me best.
65. The idea of creating a rope or restraint scene where the other person feels safe but restricted is appealing to me.
66. Depending on the person and the moment, I may be attracted either to being in control or to giving up control.
67. I am attracted to feeling pursued or claimed within a safe and consensual erotic context.
68. I am attracted to the idea of being tied or physically restrained within a safe and consensual context.
69. Inflicting pain in an agreed erotic context arouses me.
70. I can enjoy the feeling of giving up control of my body through tying or restraint.
71. After intense play, I need emotional reconnection with my partner.
72. I am drawn to the idea of having sex only with my partner while another couple does the same in the same room.
73. I am drawn to an erotic dynamic where I feel like prey.
74. I am drawn to my partner submitting to me regularly, with clear roles between us.
75. I do not need intense roleplay or control in order to enjoy sex.
76. I am drawn to the fantasy of being sexually shared by more than one person and treated as a body for pleasure, within agreed play.
77. I would feel more comfortable with a softer swap than with full sexual intercourse.
78. I am drawn to a relationship where control and submission exist beyond the bedroom.
79. I am turned on by being spoken to with words or a tone that degrades or humiliates me during erotic play.
80. I can enjoy a fantasy dynamic of care, guidance, or dependence within adult-only roleplay.
81. I am drawn to my partner taking a role with a more childish, innocent, or playful style within agreed adult roleplay.
82. I find it very appealing when my “no” is deliberately ignored as part of a scenario, as long as I know there is a safeword to stop everything.
83. I am drawn to the role of the third person added to an already existing dynamic.
84. I am drawn to taking a pet role during erotic play, pretending that I am a pet, such as a kitten, puppy, or something similar.
85. I am drawn to the idea that a shared erotic experience with a third person could strengthen our relationship.
86. I am attracted to using verbal humiliation or degradation within a clearly agreed BDSM context.
87. I am turned on by caring for, guiding, and spoiling my partner during erotic play.
88. I am attracted to watching erotic or BDSM scenes when everyone involved has consented.
89. It is important to me to see my partner with someone else rather than be in separate rooms.
90. When I trust my person completely, I feel free to explore more extreme or darker kinds of play.
91. I am drawn to the idea of surrendering so deeply to my partner that, within the scene, they can do whatever they want with me, as if I were their slave, always with agreed boundaries and the ability to stop the play at any time.
92. I am turned on by being cared for, spoiled, and given attention during erotic play.
93. Things that cause me discomfort can sexually arouse me.
94. At a couples’ erotic party, I would prefer to attend alone rather than together with my partner.
95. I like the idea of dominating through intensity, physicality, and instinct, without necessarily following formal role rules.
96. I would feel comfortable taking a role where I satisfy one of the two partners while the other watches or participates.
97. I can enjoy a more instinctive dynamic where I surrender to intensity and pursuit.
98. I would be interested in exploring swinging with my partner.
99. I like the idea of being in the role of the one who degrades or psychologically controls the other person, always with boundaries and consent.
100. I am attracted to participating as a third person in a couple’s erotic experience.
