1. Tying up or restraining my partner arouses me.
2. After intense play, I need emotional reconnection with my partner.
3. I am attracted to the fantasy of losing control when everything has been clearly agreed in advance.
4. I am drawn to roleplay with a clear age-dynamic difference, where one person takes a smaller role and the other takes a more mature or guiding role, always between adults.
5. I am drawn to my partner taking a role with a more childish, innocent, or playful style within agreed adult roleplay.
6. I would prefer clear limits in a softer swap, without full sexual intercourse.
7. An erotic experience with another couple sounds appealing to me.
8. I am drawn to a deep erotic dynamic where I serve my partner and show devotion through my role.
9. It is important to me to see my partner with someone else rather than be in separate rooms.
10. I like being given instructions during sex and letting my partner guide me.
11. I like receiving a golden shower.
12. I am turned on by the idea of being seen sexually as a body for pleasure or use, within agreed play.
13. I can be more aroused by observing the dynamic between others than by directly participating.
14. I am drawn to the feeling of belonging very deeply to my partner.
15. I am turned on by being cared for, spoiled, and given attention during erotic play.
16. Being humiliated or degraded in an agreed context arouses me.
17. I can separate an erotic experience from emotional threat.
18. I am drawn to it when my partner shares details with me about a more intense experience with someone else.
19. I am drawn to an erotic dynamic where my partner serves me and shows devotion through their role.
20. Simple and direct erotic experiences express me more than more unusual dynamics.
21. I am attracted to seeing the other person being intensely challenged through pain or other discomfort caused by me, even if within the role they appear to struggle, as long as everything has been clearly agreed in advance.
22. I am attracted to feeling pursued or claimed within a safe and consensual erotic context.
23. I do not need intense roleplay or control in order to enjoy sex.
24. I like the idea of being in the role of the one who degrades or psychologically controls the other person, always with boundaries and consent.
25. I would feel comfortable with touching and a softer swap, but not with full sexual intercourse.
26. I can enjoy the feeling of giving up control of my body through tying or restraint.
27. I am drawn to serving my partner sexually and feeling that I am at their disposal.
28. The idea of creating a rope or restraint scene where the other person feels safe but restricted is appealing to me.
29. I enjoy playfully challenging the other person’s authority to create tension and reaction.
30. I would feel more comfortable in a shared erotic setting if I stayed only with my partner.
31. Inflicting pain in an agreed erotic context arouses me.
32. I am drawn to the role of the third person added to an already existing dynamic.
33. I am drawn to my partner taking a pet role during erotic play, pretending to be a pet, such as a kitten, puppy, or something similar.
34. I am drawn to the fantasy of being sexually shared by more than one person and treated as a body for pleasure, within agreed play.
35. I like my partner caring for me, guiding me, and giving me a sense of protection during erotic play.
36. I would not mind experimenting with many people.
37. I like the idea of marks being left after an intense experience.
38. I am attracted to entering a more playful, affectionate, or animal-like role within a BDSM context.
39. The shared atmosphere with another couple attracts me even without partner swapping.
40. I find the idea of being the center of attention, with two or more partners focusing on my pleasure, very appealing.
41. At a couples’ erotic party, I would prefer to attend alone rather than together with my partner.
42. I am attracted to using verbal humiliation or degradation within a clearly agreed BDSM context.
43. The feeling of my partner physically imposing themselves on me arouses me.
44. I am attracted to trying different kink experiences, even if I do not yet know which role fits me best.
45. I am usually drawn more to intimacy than to intense kinky intensity.
46. I would feel more comfortable with a softer swap than with full sexual intercourse.
47. I am attracted to resisting or teasing within an agreed erotic power play.
48. I am drawn to an erotic dynamic where I feel like prey.
49. I am generally drawn to the idea of swinging.
50. Causing pain arouses me.
51. I am drawn to the idea of having sex only with my partner while another couple does the same in the same room.
52. I am drawn to taking a pet role during erotic play, pretending that I am a pet, such as a kitten, puppy, or something similar.
53. I would like to take part in a setting with more than one couple.
54. I think it is important to have time for cuddling, talking, or calming down after an intense experience.
55. I like peeing on others.
56. I am attracted to the idea of being tied or physically restrained within a safe and consensual context.
57. The feeling that someone is watching me can increase my arousal.
58. The fantasy of a scene involving physical force or resistance causes erotic arousal for me.
59. I can enjoy being submissive at one time and dominant at another.
60. The idea of feeling erotically inferior to a third person within an agreed setting arouses me.
61. I am drawn to guiding my partner through specific postures or rituals.
62. I would be interested in full partner swapping.
63. I could enjoy an experience even if I were watching more than participating.
64. I am drawn to the idea of group erotic play.
65. I can enjoy a more instinctive dynamic where I surrender to intensity and pursuit.
66. I do not identify with only one fixed role, because I can enjoy different dynamics in different experiences.
67. If there were trust and clear limits, I would be interested in full swap.
68. I can enjoy a role where I receive care, guidance, or control as a “pet”.
69. I like the idea of dominating through intensity, physicality, and instinct, without necessarily following formal role rules.
70. I am attracted to tying, guiding, or physically restraining someone with care and control.
71. I am drawn to the idea of my partner surrendering so deeply to me that, within the scene, I can do whatever I want with them, as if they were my slave, always with agreed boundaries and the ability to stop the play at any time.
72. The idea of entering the private space of a couple, knowing that my presence would elevate their experience, arouses me.
73. I am drawn to adult roleplay where there is a smaller, innocent, or playful style.
74. I am drawn to taking a role with a smaller, innocent, or playful style within agreed adult roleplay.
75. At first, I would prefer a softer experience rather than a full one.
76. Things that cause me discomfort can sexually arouse me.
77. Sending erotic photos or videos of myself arouses me.
78. The idea that my partner may enjoy a third person more than me arouses me.
79. The feeling of physically imposing myself on my partner arouses me.
80. I am drawn to a relationship where control and submission exist beyond the bedroom.
81. I am attracted to the idea of being watched in an erotic or BDSM scene when there is consent and a safe context.
82. Playfully resisting before I finally give in arouses me.
83. I could see such an experience as something we share rather than something threatening.
84. I would feel comfortable taking a role where I satisfy one of the two partners while the other watches or participates.
85. I like taking a caring and guiding role during sex. Rewarding my partner when they are “good” and punishing them when they are “naughty”.
86. For me, care after play is part of the overall experience and not something secondary.
87. I am turned on by being spoken to with degrading sexual words, as if I am very available, greedy, or sexually “easy”, within agreed play.
88. I prefer to gradually explore different dynamics before settling into a specific identity or role.
89. Watching others in an erotic moment arouses me.
90. Full erotic contact and swapping with another couple would not bother me.
91. I am attracted to participating as a third person in a couple’s erotic experience.
92. Depending on the person and the moment, I may be attracted either to being in control or to giving up control.
93. I can enjoy a fantasy dynamic of care, guidance, or dependence within adult-only roleplay.
94. I can enjoy an intense scenario of resistance or surrender, as long as there are clear limits, a safeword, and full prior agreement.
95. Being tied up or physically restrained arouses me.
96. Receiving pain in an agreed erotic context arouses me.
97. I am attracted to a more instinctive, hunting-like erotic dynamic where I take the active role.
98. I am attracted to watching erotic or BDSM scenes when everyone involved has consented.
99. I am turned on by being spoken to with words or a tone that degrades or humiliates me during erotic play.
100. I am interested in staying informed about communities, events, or activities related to these interests.
