1. For me, care after play is part of the overall experience and not something secondary.
2. I am attracted to watching erotic or BDSM scenes when everyone involved has consented.
3. Receiving pain in an agreed erotic context arouses me.
4. Being humiliated or degraded in an agreed context arouses me.
5. I like my partner caring for me, guiding me, and giving me a sense of protection during erotic play.
6. Being tied up or physically restrained arouses me.
7. The feeling of my partner physically imposing themselves on me arouses me.
8. The feeling of physically imposing myself on my partner arouses me.
9. I can enjoy being submissive at one time and dominant at another.
10. I am attracted to using verbal humiliation or degradation within a clearly agreed BDSM context.
11. Inflicting pain in an agreed erotic context arouses me.
12. I am drawn to taking a role with a smaller, innocent, or playful style within agreed adult roleplay.
13. I am drawn to a relationship where control and submission exist beyond the bedroom.
14. I am drawn to roleplay with a clear age-dynamic difference, where one person takes a smaller role and the other takes a more mature or guiding role, always between adults.
15. I am attracted to a more instinctive, hunting-like erotic dynamic where I take the active role.
16. I am drawn to a deep erotic dynamic where I take the submissive role and my partner has control, with clear roles between us.
17. Being watched by others in an erotic moment arouses me.
18. I am attracted to tying, guiding, or physically restraining someone with care and control.
19. I do not need intense roleplay or control in order to enjoy sex.
20. I am attracted to the fantasy of losing control when everything has been clearly agreed in advance.
21. I am attracted to trying different kink experiences, even if I do not yet know which role fits me best.
22. I am drawn to an erotic dynamic where I feel like prey.
23. I enjoy playfully challenging the other person’s authority to create tension and reaction.
24. I am drawn to expressing myself as a pet during play, through behaviors such as teasing, obedience, playfulness, purring, barking, or physical expression.
25. I am drawn to my partner serving me sexually and showing devotion through their role.
