1. I am drawn to a deep erotic dynamic where I take the submissive role and my partner has control, with clear roles between us.
2. I am attracted to tying, guiding, or physically restraining someone with care and control.
3. I am drawn to my partner serving me sexually and showing devotion through their role.
4. Being humiliated or degraded in an agreed context arouses me.
5. I am attracted to using verbal humiliation or degradation within a clearly agreed BDSM context.
6. I am drawn to an erotic dynamic where I feel like prey.
7. Being watched by others in an erotic moment arouses me.
8. I am attracted to watching erotic or BDSM scenes when everyone involved has consented.
9. Inflicting pain in an agreed erotic context arouses me.
10. I am attracted to the fantasy of losing control when everything has been clearly agreed in advance.
11. The feeling of my partner physically imposing themselves on me arouses me.
12. I am drawn to roleplay with a clear age-dynamic difference, where one person takes a smaller role and the other takes a more mature or guiding role, always between adults.
13. I am drawn to a relationship where control and submission exist beyond the bedroom.
14. I am drawn to expressing myself as a pet during play, through behaviors such as teasing, obedience, playfulness, purring, barking, or physical expression.
15. I am drawn to taking a role with a smaller, innocent, or playful style within agreed adult roleplay.
16. For me, care after play is part of the overall experience and not something secondary.
17. I am attracted to a more instinctive, hunting-like erotic dynamic where I take the active role.
18. Receiving pain in an agreed erotic context arouses me.
19. I like my partner caring for me, guiding me, and giving me a sense of protection during erotic play.
20. I am attracted to trying different kink experiences, even if I do not yet know which role fits me best.
21. The feeling of physically imposing myself on my partner arouses me.
22. Being tied up or physically restrained arouses me.
23. I do not need intense roleplay or control in order to enjoy sex.
24. I enjoy playfully challenging the other person’s authority to create tension and reaction.
25. I can enjoy being submissive at one time and dominant at another.
