1. I am turned on by being spoken to with words or a tone that degrades or humiliates me during erotic play.
2. I can enjoy a role where I receive care, guidance, or control as a “pet”.
3. I am usually drawn more to intimacy than to intense kinky intensity.
4. I like my partner caring for me, guiding me, and giving me a sense of protection during erotic play.
5. I am drawn to the feeling of my partner belonging very deeply to me.
6. The feeling that someone is watching me can increase my arousal.
7. Being tied up or physically restrained arouses me.
8. I am drawn to an erotic dynamic where I feel like prey.
9. I can enjoy a fantasy dynamic of care, guidance, or dependence within adult-only roleplay.
10. I am drawn to constantly trying new things in my erotic life.
11. I am attracted to using verbal humiliation or degradation within a clearly agreed BDSM context.
12. After intense play, I need emotional reconnection with my partner.
13. I am drawn to a deep erotic dynamic where I take the submissive role and my partner has control, with clear roles between us.
14. I do not need intense roleplay or control in order to enjoy sex.
15. Softer and more classic erotic experiences suit me more than more extreme scenarios.
16. I am turned on by being cared for, spoiled, and given attention during erotic play.
17. I like the idea of marks being left after an intense experience.
18. I like my partner speaking to me as if I hold a higher position in our relationship.
19. I can be more aroused by observing the dynamic between others than by directly participating.
20. I am turned on by speaking to my partner with words or a tone that degrades or humiliates them during erotic play.
21. Playfully resisting before I finally give in arouses me.
22. I am drawn to my partner taking a pet role during erotic play, pretending to be a pet, such as a kitten, puppy, or something similar.
23. I am drawn to the idea of having a steady dominant figure in my life.
24. I am attracted to the fantasy of losing control when everything has been clearly agreed in advance.
25. I can enjoy the feeling of giving up control of my body through tying or restraint.
26. I am drawn to adult roleplay where there is a smaller, innocent, or playful style.
27. Receiving pain in an agreed erotic context arouses me.
28. The feeling of physically imposing myself on my partner arouses me.
29. Inflicting pain in an agreed erotic context arouses me.
30. After an intense erotic experience, it is important for me that there is care and calm.
31. I do not identify with only one fixed role, because I can enjoy different dynamics in different experiences.
32. I am attracted to seeing the other person being intensely challenged through pain or other discomfort caused by me, even if within the role they appear to struggle, as long as everything has been clearly agreed in advance.
33. I like the idea of dominating through intensity, physicality, and instinct, without necessarily following formal role rules.
34. I like peeing on others.
35. I am drawn to taking a role with a smaller, innocent, or playful style within agreed adult roleplay.
36. The idea of creating a rope or restraint scene where the other person feels safe but restricted is appealing to me.
37. I am turned on by the idea of being seen sexually as a body for pleasure or use, within agreed play.
38. Being watched by others in an erotic moment arouses me.
39. Causing pain arouses me.
40. For me, care after play is part of the overall experience and not something secondary.
41. I am drawn to an erotic dynamic where my partner serves me and shows devotion through their role.
42. I prefer to gradually explore different dynamics before settling into a specific identity or role.
43. Depending on the person and the moment, I may be attracted either to being in control or to giving up control.
44. I am attracted to a more instinctive, hunting-like erotic dynamic where I take the active role.
45. I can enjoy an intense scenario of resistance or surrender, as long as there are clear limits, a safeword, and full prior agreement.
46. I am drawn to taking a pet role during erotic play, pretending that I am a pet, such as a kitten, puppy, or something similar.
47. I am turned on by being spoken to with degrading sexual words, as if I am very available, greedy, or sexually “easy”, within agreed play.
48. I enjoy playfully challenging the other person’s authority to create tension and reaction.
49. I am drawn to being in the role of the person who receives verbal degradation or psychological control, within a clearly agreed context.
50. I am attracted to resisting or teasing within an agreed erotic power play.
51. Being humiliated or degraded in an agreed context arouses me.
52. I can enjoy a more instinctive dynamic where I surrender to intensity and pursuit.
53. I am drawn to the fantasy of being sexually shared by more than one person and treated as a body for pleasure, within agreed play.
54. I am drawn to a deep erotic dynamic where I serve my partner and show devotion through my role.
55. I am attracted to entering a more playful, affectionate, or animal-like role within a BDSM context.
56. I am attracted to feeling pursued or claimed within a safe and consensual erotic context.
57. The idea of fully surrendering my body to the other person for a specific time, without needing to approve every move, excites me.
58. Things that cause me discomfort can sexually arouse me.
59. I am attracted to the idea of being watched in an erotic or BDSM scene when there is consent and a safe context.
60. I am drawn to fully letting go with my partner in that moment.
61. I like taking a caring and guiding role during sex. Rewarding my partner when they are “good” and punishing them when they are “naughty”.
62. Tying up or restraining my partner arouses me.
63. I am drawn to the idea of being sexually available to my partner and following what they want.
64. I am drawn to the idea of my partner surrendering so deeply to me that, within the scene, I can do whatever I want with them, as if they were my slave, always with agreed boundaries and the ability to stop the play at any time.
65. I am attracted to trying different kink experiences, even if I do not yet know which role fits me best.
66. I can enjoy being submissive at one time and dominant at another.
67. I am attracted to the idea of being tied or physically restrained within a safe and consensual context.
68. I am attracted to tying, guiding, or physically restraining someone with care and control.
69. Watching others in an erotic moment arouses me.
70. I am drawn to my partner taking a role with a more childish, innocent, or playful style within agreed adult roleplay.
71. I am drawn to roleplay with a clear age-dynamic difference, where one person takes a smaller role and the other takes a more mature or guiding role, always between adults.
72. I am attracted to watching erotic or BDSM scenes when everyone involved has consented.
