BDSM / Fetish Extended

1. I enjoy being guided erotically.

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2. I am drawn to adult roleplay with a more childlike tone or behavior.

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3. Watching others in an erotic moment arouses me.

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4. I like having a caring and guiding role in a relationship.

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5. Inflicting pain in an agreed erotic context arouses me.

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6. I am drawn to a relationship with rules, roles, and a clear structure.

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7. Being tied up or physically restrained arouses me.

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8. I am drawn to a relationship where offering and service have a central role.

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9. Sending erotic photos or videos of myself arouses me.

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10. I am drawn to an erotic dynamic where I feel like prey.

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11. I like the idea of marks being left after an intense experience.

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12. I am drawn to learning specific submissive postures or rituals.

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13. Tying up or restraining my partner arouses me.

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14. I like my partner caring for me and guiding me.

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15. Being cared for and spoiled in a relationship arouses me.

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16. Being spoken to in a humiliating way arouses me.

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17. I am drawn to guiding my partner through specific postures or rituals.

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18. I am drawn to fully letting go with my partner in that moment.

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19. Having control in erotic play arouses me.

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20. I like my partner speaking to me as if I hold a higher position in our relationship.

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21. The idea of being seen mainly as a source of pleasure arouses me.

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22. I can enjoy being submissive at one time and dominant at another.

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23. I am drawn to the idea of having a steady dominant figure in my life.

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24. Being watched by others in an erotic moment arouses me.

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25. Caring for and spoiling my partner arouses me.

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26. I am drawn to my partner taking on a role with a more childlike tone or behavior.

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27. Receiving pain in an agreed erotic context arouses me.

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28. I am drawn to offering myself and serving my partner.

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29. The idea of my partner being completely at my disposal arouses me.

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30. I am drawn to the idea of being completely at my partner's disposal.

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31. I am drawn to taking on an animal role in erotic play.

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32. I am drawn to my partner taking on an animal role in erotic play.

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33. Speaking to my partner in a humiliating way arouses me.

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34. Being humiliated or degraded in an agreed context arouses me.

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35. I am drawn to constantly trying new things in my erotic life.

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36. The feeling of my partner physically overpowering me arouses me.

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37. I am drawn to leaving erotic decisions to my partner.

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38. I am drawn to making erotic decisions for my partner.

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39. Playfully resisting before I finally give in arouses me.

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40. My partner playfully resisting before I finally take over arouses me.

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41. I am drawn to a relationship where control and submission exist beyond the bedroom.

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42. I am drawn to my partner serving me as a core part of our relationship.

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43. I am drawn to the feeling of belonging very deeply to my partner.

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44. I am drawn to the feeling of my partner belonging very deeply to me.

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45. Things that create disgust or intense embarrassment can arouse me.

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46. I am drawn to a urine-related fetish in the more passive role.

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47. I am drawn to a urine-related fetish in the more active role.

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48. I am drawn to very intense pain play with clear agreement and limits.

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49. I am drawn to applying very intense pain play with clear agreement and limits.

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50. The feeling of physically overpowering my partner arouses me.

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51. I am drawn to taking on a role with a more childlike tone or behavior.

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52. Humiliating or degrading my partner in an agreed context arouses me.

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53. I am drawn to the idea of my partner having no strict limits within total surrender.

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54. I am drawn to the idea of having no strict limits within total surrender.

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55. I am drawn to a very deep relationship of submission and control with clearly defined roles.

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56. I am generally drawn to the idea of taking on an animal role.

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57. I am drawn to my partner submitting to me on an ongoing basis.

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58. I am drawn to submitting to my partner on an ongoing basis.

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59. I am interested in meeting more people with similar interests.

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60. I am interested in staying informed about communities, events, or activities related to these interests.

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1. I enjoy being guided erotically.

2. I am drawn to adult roleplay with a more childlike tone or behavior.

3. Watching others in an erotic moment arouses me.

4. I like having a caring and guiding role in a relationship.

5. Inflicting pain in an agreed erotic context arouses me.

6. I am drawn to a relationship with rules, roles, and a clear structure.

7. Being tied up or physically restrained arouses me.

8. I am drawn to a relationship where offering and service have a central role.

9. Sending erotic photos or videos of myself arouses me.

10. I am drawn to an erotic dynamic where I feel like prey.

11. I like the idea of marks being left after an intense experience.

12. I am drawn to learning specific submissive postures or rituals.

13. Tying up or restraining my partner arouses me.

14. I like my partner caring for me and guiding me.

15. Being cared for and spoiled in a relationship arouses me.

16. Being spoken to in a humiliating way arouses me.

17. I am drawn to guiding my partner through specific postures or rituals.

18. I am drawn to fully letting go with my partner in that moment.

19. Having control in erotic play arouses me.

20. I like my partner speaking to me as if I hold a higher position in our relationship.

21. The idea of being seen mainly as a source of pleasure arouses me.

22. I can enjoy being submissive at one time and dominant at another.

23. I am drawn to the idea of having a steady dominant figure in my life.

24. Being watched by others in an erotic moment arouses me.

25. Caring for and spoiling my partner arouses me.

26. I am drawn to my partner taking on a role with a more childlike tone or behavior.

27. Receiving pain in an agreed erotic context arouses me.

28. I am drawn to offering myself and serving my partner.

29. The idea of my partner being completely at my disposal arouses me.

30. I am drawn to the idea of being completely at my partner's disposal.

31. I am drawn to taking on an animal role in erotic play.

32. I am drawn to my partner taking on an animal role in erotic play.

33. Speaking to my partner in a humiliating way arouses me.

34. Being humiliated or degraded in an agreed context arouses me.

35. I am drawn to constantly trying new things in my erotic life.

36. The feeling of my partner physically overpowering me arouses me.

37. I am drawn to leaving erotic decisions to my partner.

38. I am drawn to making erotic decisions for my partner.

39. Playfully resisting before I finally give in arouses me.

40. My partner playfully resisting before I finally take over arouses me.

41. I am drawn to a relationship where control and submission exist beyond the bedroom.

42. I am drawn to my partner serving me as a core part of our relationship.

43. I am drawn to the feeling of belonging very deeply to my partner.

44. I am drawn to the feeling of my partner belonging very deeply to me.

45. Things that create disgust or intense embarrassment can arouse me.

46. I am drawn to a urine-related fetish in the more passive role.

47. I am drawn to a urine-related fetish in the more active role.

48. I am drawn to very intense pain play with clear agreement and limits.

49. I am drawn to applying very intense pain play with clear agreement and limits.

50. The feeling of physically overpowering my partner arouses me.

51. I am drawn to taking on a role with a more childlike tone or behavior.

52. Humiliating or degrading my partner in an agreed context arouses me.

53. I am drawn to the idea of my partner having no strict limits within total surrender.

54. I am drawn to the idea of having no strict limits within total surrender.

55. I am drawn to a very deep relationship of submission and control with clearly defined roles.

56. I am generally drawn to the idea of taking on an animal role.

57. I am drawn to my partner submitting to me on an ongoing basis.

58. I am drawn to submitting to my partner on an ongoing basis.

59. I am interested in meeting more people with similar interests.

60. I am interested in staying informed about communities, events, or activities related to these interests.

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