1. I am turned on by being spoken to with degrading sexual words, as if I am very available, greedy, or sexually “easy”, within agreed play.
2. I am attracted to the idea of being tied or physically restrained within a safe and consensual context.
3. I am attracted to a more instinctive, hunting-like erotic dynamic where I take the active role.
4. I am drawn to an erotic dynamic where I feel like prey.
5. Being tied up or physically restrained arouses me.
6. Receiving pain in an agreed erotic context arouses me.
7. I like the idea of dominating through intensity, physicality, and instinct, without necessarily following formal role rules.
8. I am drawn to my partner taking a role with a more childish, innocent, or playful style within agreed adult roleplay.
9. I am turned on by the idea of being seen sexually as a body for pleasure or use, within agreed play.
10. Humiliating or degrading my partner in an agreed context arouses me.
11. I am drawn to the idea of having a steady dominant figure in my life.
12. I can enjoy being submissive at one time and dominant at another.
13. I am attracted to seeing the other person being intensely challenged through pain or other discomfort caused by me, even if within the role they appear to struggle, as long as everything has been clearly agreed in advance.
14. Softer and more classic erotic experiences suit me more than more extreme scenarios.
15. I think it is important to have time for cuddling, talking, or calming down after an intense experience.
16. After an intense erotic experience, it is important for me that there is care and calm.
17. I am turned on by being spoken to with words or a tone that degrades or humiliates me during erotic play.
18. I can be more aroused by observing the dynamic between others than by directly participating.
19. I find it very appealing when my “no” is deliberately ignored as part of a scenario, as long as I know there is a safeword to stop everything.
20. I am attracted to entering a more playful, affectionate, or animal-like role within a BDSM context.
21. I am attracted to feeling pursued or claimed within a safe and consensual erotic context.
22. I am turned on by being cared for, spoiled, and given attention during erotic play.
23. Inflicting pain in an agreed erotic context arouses me.
24. I am attracted to using verbal humiliation or degradation within a clearly agreed BDSM context.
25. I am attracted to watching erotic or BDSM scenes when everyone involved has consented.
26. I like the idea of being in the role of the one who degrades or psychologically controls the other person, always with boundaries and consent.
27. I am drawn to serving my partner sexually and feeling that I am at their disposal.
28. Causing pain arouses me.
29. Things that cause me discomfort can sexually arouse me.
30. I am drawn to the feeling of my partner belonging very deeply to me.
31. I like the idea of marks being left after an intense experience.
32. I am drawn to taking a pet role during erotic play, pretending that I am a pet, such as a kitten, puppy, or something similar.
33. Simple and direct erotic experiences express me more than more unusual dynamics.
34. The idea of creating a rope or restraint scene where the other person feels safe but restricted is appealing to me.
35. I can enjoy a role where I receive care, guidance, or control as a “pet”.
36. Being watched by others in an erotic moment arouses me.
37. I am attracted to the idea of being watched in an erotic or BDSM scene when there is consent and a safe context.
38. I am drawn to my partner taking a pet role during erotic play, pretending to be a pet, such as a kitten, puppy, or something similar.
39. The feeling of my partner physically imposing themselves on me arouses me.
40. Depending on the person and the moment, I may be attracted either to being in control or to giving up control.
41. Tying up or restraining my partner arouses me.
42. I am drawn to an erotic dynamic where my partner serves me and shows devotion through their role.
43. Watching others in an erotic moment arouses me.
44. I like taking a caring and guiding role during sex. Rewarding my partner when they are “good” and punishing them when they are “naughty”.
45. I am drawn to learning specific submissive postures or rituals.
46. I can enjoy a more instinctive dynamic where I surrender to intensity and pursuit.
47. I can enjoy a fantasy dynamic of care, guidance, or dependence within adult-only roleplay.
48. For me, care after play is part of the overall experience and not something secondary.
49. I am drawn to a deep erotic dynamic where I take the submissive role and my partner has control, with clear roles between us.
50. Playfully resisting before I finally give in arouses me.
51. I am drawn to adult roleplay where there is a smaller, innocent, or playful style.
52. I am attracted to resisting or teasing within an agreed erotic power play.
53. I do not need intense roleplay or control in order to enjoy sex.
54. I am drawn to taking a role with a smaller, innocent, or playful style within agreed adult roleplay.
55. I am drawn to guiding my partner through specific postures or rituals.
56. I like my partner caring for me, guiding me, and giving me a sense of protection during erotic play.
57. I am drawn to the fantasy of being sexually shared by more than one person and treated as a body for pleasure, within agreed play.
58. The feeling that someone is watching me can increase my arousal.
59. I can enjoy the feeling of giving up control of my body through tying or restraint.
60. I am attracted to tying, guiding, or physically restraining someone with care and control.
61. When I trust my person completely, I feel free to explore more extreme or darker kinds of play.
62. I like receiving a golden shower.
63. The idea of fully surrendering my body to the other person for a specific time, without needing to approve every move, excites me.
64. I am attracted to trying different kink experiences, even if I do not yet know which role fits me best.
65. I am drawn to constantly trying new things in my erotic life.
66. I enjoy playfully challenging the other person’s authority to create tension and reaction.
67. I prefer to gradually explore different dynamics before settling into a specific identity or role.
68. I am drawn to my partner submitting to me regularly, with clear roles between us.
69. I am drawn to roleplay with a clear age-dynamic difference, where one person takes a smaller role and the other takes a more mature or guiding role, always between adults.
70. I am drawn to the idea of my partner surrendering so deeply to me that, within the scene, I can do whatever I want with them, as if they were my slave, always with agreed boundaries and the ability to stop the play at any time.
71. I do not identify with only one fixed role, because I can enjoy different dynamics in different experiences.
72. Being humiliated or degraded in an agreed context arouses me.
