1. I am attracted to watching erotic or BDSM scenes when everyone involved has consented.
2. Causing pain arouses me.
3. I am drawn to taking a role with a smaller, innocent, or playful style within agreed adult roleplay.
4. Receiving pain in an agreed erotic context arouses me.
5. The idea of not having a say in when or how sex begins arouses me, as long as I have given my consent in advance.
6. Things that cause me discomfort can sexually arouse me.
7. I am drawn to learning specific submissive postures or rituals.
8. I am drawn to constantly trying new things in my erotic life.
9. I am drawn to expressing myself as a pet during play, through behaviors such as teasing, obedience, playfulness, purring, barking, or physical expression.
10. I am drawn to a deep erotic dynamic where I serve my partner and show devotion through my role.
11. I am attracted to using verbal humiliation or degradation within a clearly agreed BDSM context.
12. I am turned on by being cared for, spoiled, and given attention during erotic play.
13. Inflicting pain in an agreed erotic context arouses me.
14. I am drawn to the idea of my partner surrendering so deeply to me that, within the scene, I can do whatever I want with them, as if they were my slave, always with agreed boundaries and the ability to stop the play at any time.
15. I do not identify with only one fixed role, because I can enjoy different dynamics in different experiences.
16. I am attracted to seeing the other person being intensely challenged through pain or other discomfort caused by me, even if within the role they appear to struggle, as long as everything has been clearly agreed in advance.
17. I can enjoy a fantasy dynamic of care, guidance, or dependence within adult-only roleplay.
18. I am attracted to resisting or teasing within an agreed erotic power play.
19. I can be more aroused by observing the dynamic between others than by directly participating.
20. I am attracted to feeling pursued or claimed within a safe and consensual erotic context.
21. I am usually drawn more to intimacy than to intense kinky intensity.
22. I am drawn to adult roleplay where there is a smaller, innocent, or playful style.
23. I am attracted to a more instinctive, hunting-like erotic dynamic where I take the active role.
24. I am turned on by speaking to my partner with words or a tone that degrades or humiliates them during erotic play.
25. When I trust my person completely, I feel free to explore more extreme or darker kinds of play.
26. The feeling that someone is watching me can increase my arousal.
27. I can enjoy being submissive at one time and dominant at another.
28. Simple and direct erotic experiences express me more than more unusual dynamics.
29. Being humiliated or degraded in an agreed context arouses me.
30. I am turned on by being spoken to with words or a tone that degrades or humiliates me during erotic play.
31. After intense play, I need emotional reconnection with my partner.
32. Having control in erotic play arouses me.
33. I like taking a caring and guiding role during sex. Rewarding my partner when they are “good” and punishing them when they are “naughty”.
34. I am attracted to the idea of being watched in an erotic or BDSM scene when there is consent and a safe context.
35. I can enjoy the feeling of giving up control of my body through tying or restraint.
36. I am drawn to guiding my partner through specific postures or rituals.
37. For me, care after play is part of the overall experience and not something secondary.
38. I prefer to gradually explore different dynamics before settling into a specific identity or role.
39. I am attracted to trying different kink experiences, even if I do not yet know which role fits me best.
40. I like peeing on others.
41. I am attracted to the fantasy of losing control when everything has been clearly agreed in advance.
42. Watching others in an erotic moment arouses me.
43. Sending erotic photos or videos of myself arouses me.
44. I am turned on by caring for, guiding, and spoiling my partner during erotic play.
45. I like the idea of dominating through intensity, physicality, and instinct, without necessarily following formal role rules.
46. I am attracted to the idea of being tied or physically restrained within a safe and consensual context.
47. I like receiving a golden shower.
48. I am drawn to submitting to my partner regularly, with clear roles between us.
49. I am drawn to taking a pet role during erotic play, pretending that I am a pet, such as a kitten, puppy, or something similar.
50. I am drawn to an erotic dynamic where I feel like prey.
51. I think it is important to have time for cuddling, talking, or calming down after an intense experience.
52. I am attracted to tying, guiding, or physically restraining someone with care and control.
53. I am drawn to the idea of being sexually available to my partner and following what they want.
54. I can enjoy a more instinctive dynamic where I surrender to intensity and pursuit.
55. I enjoy playfully challenging the other person’s authority to create tension and reaction.
56. I am turned on by being spoken to with degrading sexual words, as if I am very available, greedy, or sexually “easy”, within agreed play.
57. I am drawn to roleplay with a clear age-dynamic difference, where one person takes a smaller role and the other takes a more mature or guiding role, always between adults.
58. I do not need intense roleplay or control in order to enjoy sex.
59. Depending on the person and the moment, I may be attracted either to being in control or to giving up control.
60. Tying up or restraining my partner arouses me.
61. I am drawn to my partner serving me sexually and showing devotion through their role.
62. Playfully resisting before I finally give in arouses me.
63. I am drawn to my partner taking a role with a more childish, innocent, or playful style within agreed adult roleplay.
64. Being tied up or physically restrained arouses me.
65. I like my partner speaking to me as if I hold a higher position in our relationship.
66. I am drawn to a deep erotic dynamic where my partner takes the submissive role and I have control, with clear roles between us.
67. The idea of creating a rope or restraint scene where the other person feels safe but restricted is appealing to me.
68. I am drawn to my partner taking a pet role during erotic play, pretending to be a pet, such as a kitten, puppy, or something similar.
69. I am drawn to the idea of having a steady dominant figure in my life.
70. I am attracted to entering a more playful, affectionate, or animal-like role within a BDSM context.
71. I like the idea of marks being left after an intense experience.
72. I am drawn to the fantasy of being sexually shared by more than one person and treated as a body for pleasure, within agreed play.
