1. I am attracted to using verbal humiliation or degradation within a clearly agreed BDSM context.
2. Being humiliated or degraded in an agreed context arouses me.
3. Watching others in an erotic moment arouses me.
4. I can enjoy a more instinctive dynamic where I surrender to intensity and pursuit.
5. After intense play, I need emotional reconnection with my partner.
6. For me, care after play is part of the overall experience and not something secondary.
7. I like the idea of dominating through intensity, physicality, and instinct, without necessarily following formal role rules.
8. I am drawn to the fantasy of being sexually shared by more than one person and treated as a body for pleasure, within agreed play.
9. I am attracted to tying, guiding, or physically restraining someone with care and control.
10. I like receiving a golden shower.
11. I am drawn to the feeling of belonging very deeply to my partner.
12. The idea of creating a rope or restraint scene where the other person feels safe but restricted is appealing to me.
13. I am attracted to feeling pursued or claimed within a safe and consensual erotic context.
14. The idea of fully surrendering my body to the other person for a specific time, without needing to approve every move, excites me.
15. I enjoy playfully challenging the other person’s authority to create tension and reaction.
16. The feeling that someone is watching me can increase my arousal.
17. I do not need intense roleplay or control in order to enjoy sex.
18. I like taking a caring and guiding role during sex. Rewarding my partner when they are “good” and punishing them when they are “naughty”.
19. I am drawn to my partner submitting to me regularly, with clear roles between us.
20. Tying up or restraining my partner arouses me.
21. I can enjoy a fantasy dynamic of care, guidance, or dependence within adult-only roleplay.
22. I am drawn to an erotic dynamic where my partner serves me and shows devotion through their role.
23. Being tied up or physically restrained arouses me.
24. I am drawn to roleplay with a clear age-dynamic difference, where one person takes a smaller role and the other takes a more mature or guiding role, always between adults.
25. I am turned on by speaking to my partner with words or a tone that degrades or humiliates them during erotic play.
26. I am drawn to taking a pet role during erotic play, pretending that I am a pet, such as a kitten, puppy, or something similar.
27. I am turned on by being cared for, spoiled, and given attention during erotic play.
28. I am drawn to serving my partner sexually and feeling that I am at their disposal.
29. I am drawn to fully letting go with my partner in that moment.
30. I can be more aroused by observing the dynamic between others than by directly participating.
31. I find it very appealing when my “no” is deliberately ignored as part of a scenario, as long as I know there is a safeword to stop everything.
32. I am drawn to roleplay between adults where there is resistance, but everything has been agreed in advance.
33. I like the idea of being in the role of the one who degrades or psychologically controls the other person, always with boundaries and consent.
34. I am drawn to an erotic dynamic where I feel like prey.
35. Inflicting pain in an agreed erotic context arouses me.
36. I am drawn to expressing myself as a pet during play, through behaviors such as teasing, obedience, playfulness, purring, barking, or physical expression.
37. Depending on the person and the moment, I may be attracted either to being in control or to giving up control.
38. I am interested in staying informed about communities, events, or activities related to these interests.
39. I am drawn to the feeling of my partner belonging very deeply to me.
40. I am drawn to my partner taking a role with a more childish, innocent, or playful style within agreed adult roleplay.
41. I prefer to gradually explore different dynamics before settling into a specific identity or role.
42. I like the idea of marks being left after an intense experience.
43. I am attracted to the idea of being tied or physically restrained within a safe and consensual context.
44. I am drawn to adult roleplay where there is a smaller, innocent, or playful style.
45. I am attracted to seeing the other person being intensely challenged through pain or other discomfort caused by me, even if within the role they appear to struggle, as long as everything has been clearly agreed in advance.
46. I am usually drawn more to intimacy than to intense kinky intensity.
47. I am turned on by the idea of being seen sexually as a body for pleasure or use, within agreed play.
48. I can enjoy the feeling of giving up control of my body through tying or restraint.
49. I am drawn to taking a role with a smaller, innocent, or playful style within agreed adult roleplay.
50. I think it is important to have time for cuddling, talking, or calming down after an intense experience.
51. I can enjoy a role where I receive care, guidance, or control as a “pet”.
52. I am attracted to the idea of being watched in an erotic or BDSM scene when there is consent and a safe context.
53. I am turned on by being spoken to with degrading sexual words, as if I am very available, greedy, or sexually “easy”, within agreed play.
54. Things that cause me discomfort can sexually arouse me.
55. I am drawn to the idea of being sexually available to my partner and following what they want.
56. I am drawn to a relationship with rules, roles, and a clear structure.
57. Receiving pain in an agreed erotic context arouses me.
58. I am drawn to the idea of my partner surrendering so deeply to me that, within the scene, I can do whatever I want with them, as if they were my slave, always with agreed boundaries and the ability to stop the play at any time.
59. Causing pain arouses me.
60. Simple and direct erotic experiences express me more than more unusual dynamics.
61. I am attracted to resisting or teasing within an agreed erotic power play.
62. I am attracted to a more instinctive, hunting-like erotic dynamic where I take the active role.
63. Being watched by others in an erotic moment arouses me.
64. I am drawn to my partner taking a pet role during erotic play, pretending to be a pet, such as a kitten, puppy, or something similar.
65. I am drawn to the idea of having a steady dominant figure in my life.
66. I am attracted to trying different kink experiences, even if I do not yet know which role fits me best.
67. I am attracted to watching erotic or BDSM scenes when everyone involved has consented.
68. I am turned on by being spoken to with words or a tone that degrades or humiliates me during erotic play.
69. Playfully resisting before I finally give in arouses me.
70. I can enjoy being submissive at one time and dominant at another.
71. I am turned on by caring for, guiding, and spoiling my partner during erotic play.
72. I do not identify with only one fixed role, because I can enjoy different dynamics in different experiences.
